Women want men to see their dreams, their hopes, their future, and most importantly, their eyes.
I've realized that this project has really made me think about men. Yes, men. You boys out there that woman love (supposedly). I have been talking to the men in my life: my father, my ex's, my best friends, my random hookups, etc.
And more and more, I realize how men (with the exception of my father and ONE of my guy friends) look me in the breasts and not the eyes. I used to think men only looked if we wore low cut shirts. But I can wear a EFFING t-shirt (covering everything loosely) and they look.
Yes, sometimes I draw attention to my breasts. I will admit that. I do have large boobs and I love to complain about them. Feel free to look at them at that point of time.
But when I am talking to my guy friend about a movie, and I realize he isn't looking at me, he is looking at my chest. I don't know what to do. Should I keep talking? Should I make a joke? Should I be offended or mad?
I don't want my guy to love me because I am beautiful, or have big boobs. I want my guy to look me and the eyes and see beyond that.
I want my guy to see me for me. Yes, that takes a lot more than looking in to my eyes.
I think all women would like the same thing. And with that, they want men to accept what they do see good or bad.
And even in bed, we want men to be looking at our eyes.
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